Here is my take on love, men fall in love with their eyes and lust while women fall in love with the notion of love. I don’t believe either gender is capable of truly loving each other the way it is made out to be, men and women both want companionship but neither of them really want to deal with someone who inconveniences them nor does anybody want to be bored. Love is boring after the passion fades, which it always will, and once women realize that their notion of falling in love with the idea of love is false they will try to find somebody else who isn’t boring them, while men fall out of love when the woman starts to become unattractive to them. Caring and love are two different things, they will most likely still care for each other but the love that we all want is not there. This is why women get bored and cheat and this is why men cheat with women more attractive (or sometimes from being rationed sex), granted I think a huge majority of these problems could be solved if women put out more in long term relationships and men knew how to make them seem or be more exciting.